Secret Tantric and Erotic Massage Tips – Advice From The Experts
This is an actionable list of ideas to enhance your erotic massage skills.
Our clients love the indulgence of a professional Tantric Massage in London. But, one commonly asked question by our regulars is how they can add these skills to their lives at home. This way, partners and loved ones can simultaneously enjoy a massage and learn about tantra. If life is too hectic in the run-up to Christmas to book a Couples Massage, why not try a massage at home? Here are our Secret Tantric Massage tips that you can use at home to bring the benefits of our business into your personal life.
Secret Tantric Massage Tip #1 – Set the Scene
It would help if you kept a few things in mind to create the right ambience for your secret tantric massage surprise. A professional massage agency ensures the right atmosphere for a tantric massage, making your partner feel immediately relaxed and receptive to the idea of a sensual adventure together:
Temperature
Lighting
Music
Touch
Let’s look at these topics and discuss how you can best use them to create a professional sensual massage environment in your home.
1 – Temperature
This feels incredibly obvious, but it's surprising how often the room temperature is overlooked, even in professional environments. I know from personal experience how a warm room can soon feel quite frigid once you've been lying on a massage bed for 20 minutes without any clothes. After another 30/40 minutes of trying to relax whilst shivering away, you'll be left wondering why you bothered in the first place. Not the result you or I want from any massage experience!
Ensure your room is at least 23 degrees celsius and ideally closer to 25. As the masseuse, this will feel warm to you as you work on tight muscles and move around. To your partner who is passively receiving the massage, it will simply feel Devine. No distractions, no shivers. Just pure, blissful indulgence.
2 – Lighting
Sadly this is another tip that I've learnt the hard way! Bright lights are an absolute no. Please ensure your room is dark and lit attractively. This means no strip lights, bright LED bulbs and absolutely no Lava Lamps, you big retro cheese ball!
The room should be dark, with warm candlelight flickering around the edges. Well-shaded golden bulbs can ensure you can find massage oils and essential body parts but keep this to a minimum. When I enjoy a massage, I want to feel like I've entered a womb-like cave of pleasure. If you create the same setting for your partner, the massage will start perfectly.
3 – Music
Music during a massage session is a very personal thing. If you're in a long-term relationship, you probably have a very good idea of the music your partner loves. But, even then, that music might not be appropriate for a calming massage environment. The Tantric Collective London team always use instrumental, ambient music to create a relaxing but non-specific ambience in the room. The music should be without rhythm or lyrics, allowing the listener to float in and out without noticing it. Drones are ideal for this but can hold distracting connections for the average massage enthusiast. Keep an eye out for future blog posts discussing Music for Tantric Massage.
4 – Touch
No, I don't mean touching each other. More on that later…
By touch, I mean the feel of the things in the room. You want your bed sheets to be fresh, soft and smelling of your partner's favourite fabric softener. If you own an electric blanket, put that on the bed before your massage to warn the sheets. This will feel Devine as you lay your partner down on it.
If you're planning to perform a Nuru Massage, ensure you have covered your bed in fresh, fluffy towels to keep the Nuru gel off your bed sheets. No one wants to do laundry and change the bed sheets after their massage. That's a surefire way to kill the blissed-out vibes you worked so hard to create!
Secret Tantric Massage Tip #2 – Meditation
Bear with me on this one! I know you've popped the champagne, danced around the kitchen, and now you're finally in the bedroom and ready for action but wait. To truly recreate the secrets of tantric massage at home, you must balance the mental before focusing on the physical. Here's a simple meditation you can do with your partner to get you both in the ideal mindset for your erotic adventures together.
Sit opposite each other in the middle of the bed
Join your hands and match up your breathing.
Close your eyes and count ten breaths. Working together, in breath, out breath. Repeat.
Move behind your partner and place one hand over their heart Chakra. This will nurture feelings of love. Return your focus to the breath.
Our masseuses pay close attention to each of the Chakra during their sessions. Here is a handy guide to the seven chakras, their colour and their location on the body:
Secret Tantric Massage Tip #3 – Technique
Incorporate proven Swedish Massage techniques. You will need some proven techniques to demonstrate your massage skills. Otherwise, this ‘massage’ will be a very elaborate foreplay. Not undesirable, but not entirely what we set out to achieve, so let’s dive in. An erotic massage agency employs various techniques to enhance the massage experience, ensuring authenticity and professionalism.
Swedish Massage is the most popular form of massage in the world. The five main movements involved are as follows:
Effleurage – Circular stroking to warm up the muscle and stimulate blood flow. The masseuse will use different amounts of pressure depending on the client’s needs.
Petrissage – Petrissage gets really into the muscle with kneading movements. Very effective on chronically tight or sore muscles and knots.
Tapotement – The two-handed chopping motion that has almost become a massage cliche. This is a testament to the enduring popularity of Swedish Massage.
Friction – Rubbing to increase blood flow. Work well on joints where any deeper movements could cause pain.
Vibration – Shaking areas of tension. Works well on large leg muscles and smaller areas like the face when the masseuse will ‘shake’ the area with her fingers.
Secret Tantric Massage Tip #4 – Body Glides in London
London's premier massage services incorporate body glides for an enhanced experience. Body glides are a staple technique of Erotic Massage and involve the masseuse gliding their entire body over the person being treated. The feeling of pressure, naked, oiled skin on skin and tantalising intimacy will take your massage to the next level. Incorporate teasing touches such as attention to their ear lobes or the nape of their neck to set the sensations tingling.
Overcoming Intimacy Issues with Tantric Massage
Tantric massage can be a transformative tool for overcoming intimacy issues, offering a safe and nurturing environment to explore and connect with your own body. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals who have experienced trauma, abuse, or struggle with body image issues.
By fostering a sense of trust and connection, tantric massage helps individuals feel more comfortable and open with their partners. This can lead to improved communication and deeper, more meaningful relationships. For couples, tantric massage can be a powerful way to enhance intimacy, addressing issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and low libido.
Creating a safe and nurturing environment is key. Ensure that the space is comfortable and free from distractions, allowing both partners to fully relax and engage in the experience. Open communication is also essential; discuss your needs, boundaries, and expectations with your partner to ensure a positive and fulfilling experience.
Through tantric massage, you can build a stronger connection with yourself and your partner, paving the way for a more intimate and satisfying relationship.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
When seeking a tantric massage, it’s important to avoid common mistakes that can detract from the experience. Here are some key pitfalls to watch out for:
Not Communicating Clearly: It’s essential to communicate your needs, desires and boundaries with the masseuse. Clear communication ensures that both parties are comfortable and that the massage meets your expectations.
Not Creating a Safe Environment: The environment plays a crucial role in the success of a tantric massage. Ensure that the space is comfortable, private, and free from distractions to create a relaxing atmosphere.
Not Respecting Boundaries: Respecting the masseuse’s boundaries and limitations is vital. This mutual respect fosters a sense of trust and ensures a positive experience for both parties.
Not Being Open-Minded: Approach the experience with an open mind and a willingness to explore. Being receptive to the techniques and sensations of tantric massage can enhance the overall experience.
Not Taking Time to Relax: Allow yourself to fully relax and enjoy the massage. Rushing through the experience or being preoccupied with other thoughts can diminish the benefits of the massage.
By avoiding these common mistakes, you can ensure a safe, enjoyable, and fulfilling tantric massage experience. Embrace the journey and allow yourself to fully immerse in the holistic and sensual world of tantric massage.
Conclusion
So there you have our top-secret tantric massage tips you can use at home. Embracing the art of tantric massage can help to enrich your personal and intimate experiences. By incorporating these secret tips into your home practice, you can create an environment that fosters relaxation, connection, and pleasure. Whether you're looking to deepen your relationship with your partner or explore your own sensuality, Tantric Massage London offers a unique journey into the world of erotic touch and intimacy. Remember, communication, respect, and an open mind are key to a successful tantric massage.
So, set the scene, engage in meaningful touch, and allow the transformative power of tantric massage to enhance your life. For those seeking a more profound experience, consider booking a session with a professional tantric massage agency in London to truly understand the depth and beauty of this ancient practice. Feel the difference with Tantric Collective, and let your journey to personal and shared bliss begin.
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